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November 10, 2015

Positive Attitudes To Love

How To Avoid Looking Desperate For Love

Woman Clings To Lover

Whether you are dating casually right now or are just beginning a relationship that shows potential, it is important that you do not give the impression that you are desperate for love. Looking desperate can jeopardise any chance of deepening the relationship. What are some of the things that you could do to avoid that?

For one thing, avoid being clingy and needy. Clingy behaviour will make your date feel trapped. Remember that both of you have a life outside of your dating relationship. Both of you have friends and family with whom you should also spend time. If you call your date everyday, expecting to see him all the time, he will fear that he has to put his life on hold just for you. This loss of freedom will scare him away. So, give him space.

Do not try to find out where he is all the time so you can go visit him. This can look like stalking and it can feel rather unsettling to him.

If he has a habit of calling you and expecting you to drop everything to see him, do not be so quick to accept all the time. If you do, you will send him the message that you are always waiting around for him to call. He will end up not valuing the time that he spends with you. He needs to know that you have other interests besides your dating relationship and that the time spent with you is precious.

You do not have to agree with everything that he says in order to please him. If you disagree with something that he said or did, express that politely. If you agree with him all the time, he will think that you have no original thoughts at all. He may start to find you uninteresting. Therefore, do not be afraid to disagree with him. Let him see that you are an independent thinker.

If you have a reasonable set of qualities that you want your date to possess, you should not have to settle for less out of desperation. These are not materialistic qualities like a high income or a perfect body. Rather, these relate to the human character such as honesty, reliability, integrity, compassion, etc. If your date does not treat you properly, you should not lower your standards and accept this behaviour. You should keep your self-respect high and not settle for anything less because you are not desperate.

Remember to always maintain your self-respect in your relationship. Avoid feeling desperate and the right kind of love will come along.